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February 18, 2008

第256話 戻ってこない人たち

 まずは良くあるパターンでメイド。帰省したまま帰ってこなくなり、そのまま音信不通という話はよく聞くが、多くの場合で給料の前借りをしている。戻ればしばらくは返済のためタダ働きとなってしまうので、戻る気にもならないのだろう。もたもたしているうちに、雇い主からの叱責をおそれたり、恩知らずのレッテルを貼られることへの独特の恥の価値観があったりで、いよいよ戻れなくなる。

 メイドばかりではない。会社員でも突然来なくなる人たちもいる。

 総務にいたスーパーバイザーLはある日突然無断欠勤が始まり、そのまま来なくなった。どうやら同僚達の話では、浮気がバレて、奥さんから家を追い出されたらしい。また、流暢な通訳であったIさんは、母親が亡くなり実家に葬儀のために帰省した。こうなると1週間くらいは戻ってこないだろうと予測はしていたが、10日経っても半月経っても戻って来ない。その間、連絡は無いままだ。やっと連絡が取れたと思ったら、お母さんが死んでからというもの働く意欲が湧いてこない、と言う。

 日本人の感性で仕事をしていると、こういった場合には多大なストレスを感じる。アテにしていた分担を一方的に突然放棄されてはたまったものではない。フィリピンで仕事をする際には、特定の人に多くを依存することなく、常にバッファを持った状況が必要だ。gawk 

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私も昔、雇っていた、男の子に逃げられてしまいました。
やはり、借金の後でしたのですが、荷物を全部持っていきました。
帰る気はなかったようです。
世話をしたとか、面倒をみたとかは、こちらの勝手であったのだと思います。
仰る通り、恥の文化ですから、戻ってきたくない、何かがあったのかも知れません。
今となれば、懐かしいような思い出話です!(笑)

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